thought this was a good fit for the boob blog. :)
lisa
strange thing happened to me tonight, i went to a networking mixer i was facilitating, hosted by a group member. she lived in a mansion.
as anyone who knows me knows, my cleavage, like earrings, is an accessory i wear with pride pretty much most of the time.
the host said "i am going to give you a scarf to wear to cover that. this is an orthodox home."
i wasnt letting them tumble out of a tight top or anything. my wrap dress was loose fitting albeit a little low cut- nothing crazy, on the scale of my wardrobe, a 4 or 5 (10 being 'holy knockers, batman!)
i was put off by this- not offended but i felt stupid. my cleavage is usually welcomed anywhere. i never thought it might be offensive in someones home! i felt rejected-
my cleavage is a form of self-expression. my cleavage is part of me. i felt like i wasn't accepted. like a harlot or a jezebel. and in pure lisa-fashion, i rebelled, respectfully:
"well... i can just pin it, or cover it up" i pulled my dress closed more. i'm sorry, i am just not the scarf wearing type.
its like bringing your kids to a party and then finding out kids arent allowed- its not like anyone warned me.
so, the girls stayed. they just laid low and acted discreet for the night.
modesty? whats that? i can certainly respect ones religious values, especially when i am a guest in their home, but personally, i think god likes my cleavage.